Tuesday, February 24, 2015

P52: On Aunt-hood

There's this little boy who has stolen my heart, and I haven't even met him yet.  His name is Silas Landon Parker, the first son of my older brother and sister-in-law.  He is a beautiful (er..handsome) bundle of baby!



I've always heard--and now get to test the theory--that being an aunt is one of the greatest things.  It's right up there with grand-parenting.  Apparently, there is some pleasure found in spoiling your respective nephew or niece and then giving them back to the parents.  Or at least I've heard this rumor more than once!  Rest assured, little nephew, there will be no spoiling here--only cookies, presents, toys, and lots of "quality" time.

Oh, great aunts, uncles and the to-be's, take heed!

Tip 1:   Don't do anything over the top.  Simple sophistication with a thoughtful touch is sure to win over the little niece or nephew, and their parents.  While those fuzzy pink, matching hats might be cute in the store, it just looks far to cheesy once you actually put them on.

Tip 2: Food--especially desserts--speaks to Daddy; extra time to sleep, speaks to Mommy.

Tip 3: Don't worry about the competition.  Yes, you may have to fight popularity with grandmas, grandpas and zealous uncles, but it will all come out in the end.  Besides, who can resist an aunt who really takes time to listen and just be there when she needs to be.  Also, the one who plays fair might get a slow start, but they will be rewarded in the end.


Oh, the irony, I really don't know a whole lot about being an aunt.  I'm sure that I'll learn a lot over the years to have more tips and tidbits for other eager aunts and uncles.  But till then...







Tip 4: The Best Aunts are Humble.

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

P52: Valentine's thoughts

There is one day in February that is filled with pink, red, hearts, chocolate, and teddy bears.  Some laugh at Valentine's Day for it's commercialism--like every other "American" holiday, while others glow in the light of the love flowing on February 14.  I noticed anticipation and excitement as well as fear and loneliness.  What's the big deal about Valentine's Day?  Does this holiday really matter?

Valentine's Day for the those who know God should be a reminder of true love.  Love of and from God shows us what to celebrate.

God is Love.  
Love is patient. 
Love is kind. 
Love does not boast; it praises and glorifies God.
Love is not envious; it is thankful and rejoices with others
Love is not arrogant; it thinks of others more highly than itself.
Love is not rude; it evaluates what it does to honor the other 
Love does not insist on it's own way; it gives freely and lays down it's own rights.
Love is not irritable; it is filled with grace and truth.
Love is not resentful; it willingly forgives as it has been forgiven.
Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things. 
Love believes all things. 
Love hopes all things. 
Love endures all things.  



Monday, February 9, 2015

P52: Music Monday



Recent Fascination: 

I've been a little overwhelmed recently by a fascination with lyrics, story, and music.  It all started on Friday night after some friends and I attended a small concert of a new-to-me folk-pop husband and wife duo, The Gray Havens.  Their music was fun and whimsical, combining deep and clever lyrics with sweet and unusual melodies.  During the concert, they shared the goal of writing story in music to share deep truths and make realities easier to understand.  

Which, by the way, if you've never heard or checked out music by The Gray Havens, do it today!  

Fire and Stone cover art


With this recent fascination, I've been playing many primitive lines and phrases through my head and singing them in my own way.  It's been a fun exercise; although I have a lot of work to do to create a "good" song!  One of the challenges comes from my need to expand my vocabulary with words that express thoughts and colors and sounds and feelings and pictures.  Another comes from reading and learning new, and re-learning old, ways of communicating truth presented in books, especially Scripture.  And maybe one of these weeks, I'll publish an "original"; but for the moment, I will spare you all!     

The Power of Song:

I remember having long conversations growing up and while Bible college about the significance of music and rhythm and harmony.  Does music have power?  Is it amoral?  Is there an absolute standard of musical style in Scripture?  What should we be listening too?  Does it matter?  Can you listen to music simply to enjoy it or will it subconsciously effect you?  How quickly can music affect you?  And so on... 

Though it is an interesting conversation, as I've been growing in my walk with the Lord, it isn't as much of a question.  I've realized that music does indeed effect the things I think about or contemplate.  If I am struggling with something, some genres of music actually do more to stimulate lies in my brain.  Or when I'm discouraged, other music is like a balm to my weary soul.  

I was actually laughing to myself this weekend as I was traveling by myself to visit some friends.  I grabbed a bunch of CD's to help the trip go faster (a.k.a. keep me awake).  One of them was labeled, "It's a Sunny Day", and since it was a sunny day, I popped it into the player.  Of the 19 songs on the CD, at least 80% of them were melancholy love/break-up/sappy songs.  Yes, I laughed too; so much for sunshine!  However, I did smile at the memories that came flooding back with each "sunny" song; those were almost enough to make the label accurate!  

Knowing my own sinful heart--prone to wander, Lord I feel it--I'm noticing how much care needs to be taken with what I feed my mind.  Call this an elementary, Christian-living principle, but taken at the ground-level-practical-life stage it looks like making choices to listen to things that glorify God and reflect the beauty of His character and creation.  

Jesus explained this in Mark 7, as He was talking to a group of people and Pharisees. 

He said, "And he called the people to him again and said to them, “Hear me, all of you, and understand:  There is nothing outside a person that by going into him can defile him, but the things that come out of a person are what defile him.” And when he had entered the house and left the people, his disciples asked him about the parable.  And he said to them, “Then are you also without understanding? Do you not see that whatever goes into a person from outside cannot defile him, since it enters not his heart but his stomach, and is expelled?” (Thus he declared all foods clean.)  And he said, “What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness.  All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person."

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

P52: reminiscing

C.S. Lewis once said, "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too?  I thought I was the only one!'"

I'm cheating a little in this blog post, by only adding a smattering of pictures of dear friends instead of a story about them.  But each picture tells a story.  It's a story of friendship, different, unique relationships with others.  Friendships are a gift from God because they are one way to show the Gospel in our everyday life.  

Please comment below, and let me know about the memories that flooded into your mind once you saw these pictures.