I've always heard--and now get to test the theory--that being an aunt is one of the greatest things. It's right up there with grand-parenting. Apparently, there is some pleasure found in spoiling your respective nephew or niece and then giving them back to the parents. Or at least I've heard this rumor more than once! Rest assured, little nephew, there will be no spoiling here--only cookies, presents, toys, and lots of "quality" time.
Oh, great aunts, uncles and the to-be's, take heed!
Tip 1: Don't do anything over the top. Simple sophistication with a thoughtful touch is sure to win over the little niece or nephew, and their parents. While those fuzzy pink, matching hats might be cute in the store, it just looks far to cheesy once you actually put them on.
Tip 2: Food--especially desserts--speaks to Daddy; extra time to sleep, speaks to Mommy.
Tip 3: Don't worry about the competition. Yes, you may have to fight popularity with grandmas, grandpas and zealous uncles, but it will all come out in the end. Besides, who can resist an aunt who really takes time to listen and just be there when she needs to be. Also, the one who plays fair might get a slow start, but they will be rewarded in the end.
Oh, the irony, I really don't know a whole lot about being an aunt. I'm sure that I'll learn a lot over the years to have more tips and tidbits for other eager aunts and uncles. But till then...
Tip 4: The Best Aunts are Humble.
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